1.Don’t be in a hurry to get married
Life is like a buffet where you’ll come across vegetables and salads first while the sweet grilled meat is at the far end.
If you fill your plate with vegetables you’ll have no space for the yummy stuff.
This life is not going anywhere.
The biggest mistakes people do are the ones that are done with a YOLO mindset.
YOLO will kill you before your time my friend.
Okay so if life is short you want to get married 100 times and have 200 children even before you are 30 years of age right?
Marriage has 99 problems man.
And the biggest problem is that people don’t get married because they want to.
It’s because of peer pressure and nothing good comes with peer pressure.
I am 22 and I am very much financially stable compared to my age mates and I can’t get married because first of all there is no one to marry.
And second, I want to get married at age 30 when am really mature and financially stable to give my wife anything she wants.
2.Have something to do and someone to believe in.
An idle man is a miserable man.
When you are busy you have no time for negative people and negativity.
You also need someone to believe in.
God has no religion.
So you can be a Muslim, Christian or whatever but believe in a superior being.
It is only in God that you can find peace.
More about happiness is in my book which is will be published by the end of March.
I have explained everything about living a happy life there in detail.
It’s a self-help book.
3.Have an older and wiser friend
This aids in good decision making.
Life is very unforgiving. You are always one mistake away from a miserable life.
I know a school girl who wanted to ‘own’ her working class boyfriend by getting herself pregnant who then dumped her after knowing she’s pregnant.
Now she has a baby who is always making noise for her crying all night.
A baby who she can’t support because her parents are extremely poor and she has no where to go.
She has no education.
If she had an older and wiser friend she wouldn’t be in problems.
Being kind involves many things.
It is not always about the money.
Being there when somebody needs you just to talk to them is the best thing you can give to someone.
I can’t give a single cent of mine to anyone (god I work for 21hrs a day) but I am always there for people if they need me as a person.
This involves empathy too.
Just because you are right it doesn’t mean am wrong.
5+5=10 and 2×5=10
Empathy has a lot to do with thinking outside the box.
I heard somebody say that he hates Donald Trump. And he calls him a fool.
Reason being ‘he hates black people and Arabs.’
What I see when Donald Trump says he doesn’t like black men is AN HONEST MAN.
Those are my kind of people. Real people.
And a man who can turn a 3 Billion dollar debt around to a net worth of 10 Billion Dollars and become a US president is no where in the lines of a fool.
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