The only excuse that people have against arranged marriages is “I want to get married to the man of my choice, a man that I love.”
I have known through experience that, that shit called “falling in love,” is what it is. Shit.
How people ‘fall in love.’
Lemme tell you how “falling in love” goes down and you’ll relate to how you felt towards the person that you claim you “fell in love” with.
You first see that person, and you are attracted to them physically.
You keep thinking about how beautiful they are for days until that desire becomes a burning obsession in your heart and mind.
This is the point that you overlook their flaws. And start thinking that they are perfect.
And you “fall in love” even more.
No matter how broke they are, no matter how much of a psycho they are no matter how bad they might be you will still don’t care.
That obsession clouds your judgement.
This is Where parents come in handy because they are not as confused as you are.
Then you console yourself by saying that no one is perfect.
Maybe no one is perfect but some traits in a person are the worst.
Like me, I hate ladies who are manly. Psychopaths.
If somebody was a psycho, your parents will have known all about it before getting you two married.
Who will give out their children to a psycho? No one